Married troubles

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Hi.  My wife and I have been married for 3 months now.  She's a very fun gal at times... lots of laughter.  But, sometimes she tends to rag on me really hard and I get offended by this.  Then, she says that I'm just overly sensitive.  Well, I'm not hard to get along with, so I think maybe she's right.  OK.  Turns out she's not very outgoing either.  She has this fibromyalgia that makes her tired a lot.  Well, when we got our rental, I steam cleaned it and got it ready but our stuff is still in FL.  We're in NC now and it's a long way off.  We're staying with her parents now and it's getting real old... for everyone.  So, I'm thinking that she'd be happy to move into our place.  I stock it with food, find us a bed, etc.  She reacts to this news not at all.  No joy... no "Cool," no nothing.  It's just one of those mundane details, I suppose.  But, shouldn't there be more excitment in the first year or so?  She just acts like, "So?"  Am I too outgoing?  Also, this outgoing habit of mine is irritating to her.  I'll stop and talk to almost anyone.  But, it helps in my business to get to know people.  I don't seem to fit into her life and I'm afraid that I'm losing too much of myself trying to provide for her every need.  What did I get into?  I know that I love her, but is that enough?  Am I just bitching?  Or is she feeding off of me?  I feel like I'm doing all the work, here.  Really, I just need guidance.  Anyone got an idea or suggestion?