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I have been seeing this guy for 4 months now and I notice as time is going by, he's not acting like he did in the beginning, now I know things change and you need to be more secure with the person as time goes by, but I can't help but feel like he puts me lastly, before everyone else. At first, he always made time for me, it was always him who suggested to go out, meet but lately it seems like it's a chore for him to come see me, here are some examples, weekends-Friday nights come around, we have plans at a certain time, lately, he's been calling to say he's running late, needs to stop by his sisters, needs to do give someone a ride, etc. etc. were meeting later and later, like 10 pm! Now their all valid excuses, meaning it's always something and I understand but it makes me feel like I'm not priority anymore and it's only a sign of things to come right? So the last time he did this, I told him he needs to take care of what he needs to do early--not to make me wait anymore, I told him how much it upsets me and he said it wont happen again. So needless to say- he did it again last weekend! I'm jsut so frustrated and feel like he obviously doesn't respect what I'm telling him, and this time he didnt' bother calling---he said he knew I'd be upset and jsut didn't want to get into it that night---so I'ved been cold with him since then, but I really dont' know what to do now. I want to be strong and assertive to let him know he can't do this to me, but I'm afraid I like him too much already and might forgive him for this, what do you think? Is there hope for us? How can I overcome something as simple as keeping dates, times, it shouldn't take that much efforst should it? Thanks!
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