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AGE PROBLEM IN LOVE, confusion with age and many other prob's

21/08/2006Hits: 1233
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Hi, im a 17 yr old female who lost her virginity to her x co-worker, the problem is he is 28yrs old.we were together for about 3 months, like 1 1/2 weeks ago he said he didnt want us to be together anymore because of our age difference, he said that was a problem because he didnt wanna fall deeper for me, even though that happened i still kept calling him and i asked him if we could get back together, he said he hadnt changed his mind but to give him time because he was confused but he wouldnt change his mind....the day before yesterday i talked to him on the phone and he asked me if i wanted to go see a movie with him and his kids since i was gonna be on that side of town , so i said yes...i went to his apts..and we saw a movie , later his kids left with their mom and we were just talking and joking around like if we were friends and the moment came when we were sitting and we couldnt stop looking at each other, we then started kissing and ended up making love, i spent the night with him,what happened here? whats going on? im really confused , whats happening?could it be that he really is confused or what could be it?

Please i hope someone out there can give me a bit of advice,

THANKS TO EVERYONE!!

 
 
21/08/2006Single
I would like to agree and disagree with the previus reply. The reason being is because when I was 16 I went on an emotional rollercoaster ride with a man that was 13 years older than me, with a daughter. It started out as sex too. Then feelings were invovled, and he always told me that he wanted to stop dating b/c of our age and circumstances, and despite that we still found whatever we found in eachother, and came back. Despite all the crap I heard from everyone who knew about us...I still stayed with him. Then my graduation came and now I was finally able to be a family with him....from their it lasted 5days until I broke it off with him. But he gave me a ring. SO THAT IS WHERE I DISAGREE. and HERE IS WHERE  I AGREE: read the age poll on this site where I posted my comment. It makes sense. If you are mature enough and you want to be with this person, and go through #### for a chance to get there...than keep the way you are going. Hope my story gave you insentive.....Sorry if it didnt.
 
21/08/2006Personals

OK, hon, I don't want to rain on your parade....but it sounds like to me that what you had was plain sex.....two bodies calling for each other...and nothing more.

I'm not saying that an 11 year age difference can't work....there were 11 years between my parents, and next month would've been their 70th anniversary.

I guess I'm like them.....I like younger women.....it all depends on their emotional maturity.

As far as this guy.......I'd get lost. Don't call/contact him in any way.....and, if you do meet at some point in the future, make sure you've got a friend with you.....above all....DON'T HAVE SEX IN ANY SHAPE FORM OR FASHION That'll only add fuel to the fire and confuse you more.

If you'd like to talk more, your are welcome,Good Luck

 
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